EP66 features the latest installment of our Shining Stars series, where we sit down with former SMart Center patients – or their parents – and discuss how they overcame Selective Mutism. 

In this episode, we meet former SMart Center patient Leo.

During the course of this 37-minute discussion, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum and Leo’s mom, Misty, discuss how her family found the right treatment approach for Leo, concrete examples of Leo’s expanded communication, and advice for families beginning this journey, and more.

Recognizing Leo’s Signs – When Leo’s Shyness Became Something More

Episode 66 begins with Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum and Misty discussing Leo’s journey from being completely nonverbal outside the home to making significant progress through the Ritual Sound Approach.

This chapter covers how to meet children where they are developmentally, the importance of understanding the stages of selective mutism, and why traditional “use your brave voice” techniques don’t work for all children.

The Search for Answers – Explaining Four Years Without Progress

Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum and Misty continue their discussion on the Ritual Sound Approach in this chapter. The Ritual Sound Approach is a specialized method that helps children unlearn conditioned mutism by shaping sounds into words using props and tools tailored to each child’s needs. 

The conversation emphasizes the importance of meeting children where they are developmentally, the critical role of supportive parenting, and how Leo’s passion for basketball became a gateway for expanding his communication with peers.

Finding the SMart Center – A Turning Point For Leo

This episode reaches the halfway mark as Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum and Misty explain how building confidence through a child’s natural interests—especially sports like basketball—can reduce pressure and create a safe, structured path for communication.

The focus of this chapter is on comfort, control, and gradual progress so children feel empowered rather than forced.

The Power of Structure – Crossing the Bridge to Communication

In the fourth chapter of this podcast episode, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum and Misty emphasize that medication alone is not enough, and real progress comes from structured, written goals, accountability, and parent-child partnership.

Dr. E and Misty focus on meeting children where they are and using step-by-step, attainable plans to build confidence and communication.

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Trust the Process – Lessons for Families on the Journey

Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum and Misty conclude this episode by discussing how school environments can trigger anxiety and setbacks, even after progress, and why lowering pressure is essential. 

The guidance centers on listening, validating emotions, and letting go of “you should” language to support steady, child-led growth.